Amongst the most beautiful things Allah has created, is the heart of a mother. And amongst the most beautiful things you can ever receive from her - in addition to her love, mercy, care and comfort... is her Du'aa.
The power of a mothers Du'aa for her child is incredible. Well and truly incredible.
الله يحفظك يا أمي ♡
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Bakr ibn abd Allah (rahimullah) said: "The companions of the Prophet (salallahu alayhi wasallam) used to [play by] throwing watermelon rinds at each other, but when it was time for seriousness, they were [real] men."
[Related by Bukhari in his Adab al-Mufrad]
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"A man takes his course and Allah guides his steps."
And even if the course takes longer than you expected... then know that He is teaching you patience. So keep going, keep praying, because good things come to those who wait.
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The same thing that can be said in English, when said in Arabic, sounds and means something sooooo much more beautiful.
Take the word 'mother', for example. In English, a mother is a mother. But in Arabic, أم doesn't only mean 'mother.' It has so many more implications, such as a guide, a leader, a comforter. أم also stems from root words meaning, 'the beams of a building' or 'a beautiful gathering of stars.' The Arabs would call the flag in battles, 'the mother of war' - showing that mothers or ام, are part of your identity; of who you are.
Ahh it's crazy when you think about how far and deep you can go when exploring the Arabic language. Amazes me everytime.
"But Allah is your protector, and He is the best of helpers." (3:150)
Nothing consoles your heart, more than hearing/reading a verse from the Qur'an, and instantly feeling like it's been personalised especially for you. For that moment and that time.
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I come across many people in life, but no person inspires me more than the Haafidh/ah of the Qur'an. It's like Allah has placed this incredible and special love in my heart for them.
Wow. Imagine being *so* special to Allah because of your immesne love and dedication to His book and because His words are engraved in your heart and mind. The thought it gives me goosebumps.
May we all attain the special status of Ahlul Qur'an. May we crave it, and be amongst those who are raised in honour because of it.
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Alhamdulilah for absolutely everything. His gifts are countless and His blessings, limitless.
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"He knows everything. And He is the only One you can talk to about anything without being embarrassed."
So go on, pour your heart out and ask of His Favours.
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"For there is no job in this world more precious than a mother,
No job in the world that results in higher wages,
Than to spend your sleepless nights and tiring days,
In raising the child of your better other."
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Al-Wahhaab is the one who continues to give, give, and give more. Even when we continue to disobey Him, and even when we fail to recognise those blessings, He still gives. He is the one who provides for us from unimaginable and unthinkable sources. He not only gives, but He *gifts*, and that in itself reflects His unparalleled, consistent and unwavering love for His beloved slaves.
So wipe those tears away, and know that He knows even the silent thoughts of your heart. Trust in Him completely, and He will provide for you like He provides for the birds. They go out in the mornings seeking to in search of food, and come back with their stomachs filled.
ومن يتوكل علالله فهو حسبه
"And whoever puts His trust in Allah, He will suffice Him." (65:3)
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"If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]..." (14:7)
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The entire Qur'an is absolutely beautiful. It's like an ocean of gems. Each gem revealing an ocean of knowledge.
Then there's certain Surahs that instantly capture your heart; that are a gem within themselves. Amongst them, is Surah Imran.
Too beautiful.
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May Allah make us of the people of the Qur'an, and may He increase us in friends who are also companions of the Qur'an, ameeeen.
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"Indeed, it is by patience that you will attain what you wish for, and with taqwa (God-conciousness), iron and metal will bend for you."
This quote reminded me of the verse in the Qur'an, where Allah says: "O fire, be coolness and safety upon Abraham." [21:69] In other words, be patient. In both times of prosperity and adversity. Such is the affair of the believer, that Allah causes the laws of nature to change for him. The fire that should have burned Ibrahim (as), instead brought him such coolness and peace. Put your trust in Allah, have patience, and He will cause the earth to submit to you.
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Rubaiy'iah bint Mu'awidh was amongst the many female companions who would train her children in 'Ibaadah from a very young age. She says that she would get together with other sahaabiyat, just to make toys out of wool for their children in order to encourage them to fast. She goes onto say, that whenever the children would fast, they would give them the toys so they would remain patient until the fast open
SubhanAllah, they would make toys from their own hands, just to train their children to worship Allah before they were even obligated to do so. May Allah be pleased with them and may they be pleased.
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Allah doesn't hasten, nor does He hurry. He is the One with the perfect timing - the Best of all Planners.
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Take your parents as your best friends. They are the only people in your life who love you like no other, and who truly care about your well being, no matter how old you get.
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*Believe* that miracles will happen.
And they will.
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I often wonder, where would we be without His Mercy?
Indeed it calms the heart, fills it with hope, and allows one to stand up again, even after a slip or fall.
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The beauty of putting your trust in Allah, is that you close your mind to every negative thought and expectation. You trust in His ultimate wisdom and knowledge - acknowledging that, whether He chooses to open the door for you, or leave it sealed, He will only do so for your benefit in this world and the next.
Set aside those fears, put your trust in Him, and watch His plan for you unfold.
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"The homemaker has the ultimate career. All other careers exist for one purpose only - and that is to support the ultimate career."
- C.S Lewis
In other words, to be a homemaker is an honour not a burden. To all those sisters who stay at home, remember, you have the *ultimate* career, without people like you, there will be no Doctors, no Engineers, no Pilots, etc.
Its simple. It all begins at home.
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If there's one thing the Riyadh girls have taught me, and continue to each me; it is to always appreciate and value knowledge. In the UK, there is always some sort of halaqah/conference/seminar/forum going on, and you hear of them every single week. Its become so common and normal to attend a seminar or a class, with such ease and no travel issues.
Yet in Riyadh, the girls literally have one conference/seminar every year. Yes, one! They organise it themselves, sort venues, finances and everything. And I'm telling you, the tickets sell like hot-cakes! To the point, that they have to do the same conference, twice over for those who weren't able to attend the first time. This is because the girls there, are thirsty for knowledge! Its a rarity for them and so they value it.
I would love to attend a YMP conference as I know how much goes on behind the scenes, and how many people who attend, *truly* benefit. May Allah bless my deaaar sisters in Riyadh, grant them sincerity, accept their good deeds and allow them to continue to inspire and benefit others, ameen.
Value knowledge. Small or big. For there are many out there, who yearn for the opportunity to be able to sit in the gatherings of the righteous, and to seek knowledge of the deen. Wallahi, its a huge gift.
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Don't judge a person on their past. So much can change in such a short period of time. That same person who was careless, immature and unwise, may now be a mature, grown-up individual. That same person you knew who didn't fast in Ramadhan, didn't pray any of their salaah, and who committed every kind of evil sin, may today be a person more righteous, than even you. That same person who you found to be angry, bad-tempered and foul mouthed, may today surprise you with their eloquence, honesty and sweet words.
The only constant thing in life is change. People can change instantly. Looking back at my own life, I know how it took one Ramadhan, to transform me back to where I needed to be.
Be gentle with others. Don't judge them on their past. Perhaps they will outweigh any good you've ever done, and perhaps they will surprise you. Don't turn them away, instead, give them hope.
اللهم ثبت قلبي علي دينك
May Allah keep our hearts firm upon the truth.
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He hit the nail on the head! Amazing article.
"The people who completely immerse themselves in the tiring, thankless, profoundly important job of raising children ought to be put on a pedestal. We ought to revere them and admire them like we admire rocket scientists and war heroes. These women are doing something beautiful and complicated and challenging and terrifying and painful and joyous and essential. Whatever they are doing, they ARE doing something, and our civilization DEPENDS on them doing it well. Who else can say such a thing? What other job carries with it such consequences?"
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The generation of victory, what a fine generation they will be inshaAllah.
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